“A great marriage is not when the ‘perfect couple’ comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.” – Dave Meurer
While individual therapy can and does help people deal with relationship issues on their own, sometimes it’s helpful for a couple to attend therapy together to sort through difficulties. Marriage and couples counselling is a type of counselling that offers a safe environment for couples to explore difficulties, overcome obstacles, and work toward common goals.
Couples therapy and marriage counselling offers many benefits, among them:
- Fixing a specific relationship issue
- Improving communication (both listening and talking skills)
- Rebuilding lost trust
- Establishing healthy boundaries to balance individuality and togetherness
- Reconnecting or rekindling diminished feelings of love, closeness, friendship, and intimacy
- Conflict resolution
- Recognising unhealthy behaviours and learning new, healthier actions
- Increasing each person’s understanding of and empathy toward the other
- Enhancing cooperation
- Coping with one (or both) partners’ chronic mental or physical health issues
The process to couples therapy can feel daunting in-it-of-itself, especially if you have never experienced it before. To alleviate any initial anxiety, schedule a free consultation with a My Practice Counsellor to determine if you are a good fit before beginning the counselling process and ask these questions.
- What are your specialities?
- How comfortable are you with supporting us with the needs that we have?
- What does your process look like?
- How would you describe your counselling style?
- What can we expect from you as our therapist?
- How much do you charge?
- How long do sessions last?
- Do you advise a certain number of sessions?
Based off the answers to these questions and your sense of the therapist’s personality and style, you both may have a better idea of who you’d like to work with. If you’re interested in scheduling a free 15 minute consultation with us, book online today.