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How is Your Parenting IQ?

Welcome to our Parenting Styles Self-Assessment! This quiz helps you understand your parenting style. There are no right or wrong styles – just different ways to balance your approach for the best fit for your child and family. Knowing your tendencies can help you make changes for a happier, more supportive environment for your child's growth.

1. I set clear rules and expectations for my child.

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2. I encourage my child to express their feelings and thoughts.

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3. I often find myself giving in to my child's demands to avoid conflict.

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4. I talk with my child about the reasons behind the rules.

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5. I expect my child to meet high standards without providing much support.

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6. I often feel the need to control most aspects of my child's life.

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7. I make time to listen to my child and understand their perspective.

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8. I find it hard to say no and set boundaries.

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9. I provide constructive feedback to my child to guide their behaviour.

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10. I don't involve myself much in my child's day-to-day activities.

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11. I believe it's important for my child to understand the consequences of their actions.

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12. I feel uncomfortable when my child makes mistakes.

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13. I show warmth and affection towards my child regularly.

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14. I'm more focused on my child obeying the rules than understanding them.

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15. I value my child's independence and encourage them to make their own decisions.

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16. I tend to be more of a friend than a parent to my child.

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17. I believe in a strict discipline approach without much room for negotiation.

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18. I emphasize the importance of open communication in our household.

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19. I struggle to provide guidance or feedback to my child.

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20. I believe my child should have a say in the rules and decisions that affect them.

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